Sitting

Sitting
And this moment is my path

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Long Point Light



Long Point's apparitional
this warm spring morning,
the strand a blur of sandy light,


and the square white
of the lighthouse-separated from us
by the bay's ultramarine


as if it were nowhere
we could ever go-gleams
like a tower's ghost, hazing


into the rinsed blue of March,
our last outpost in the huge
indetermination of sea.


It seems cheerful enough,
in the strengthening sunlight,
fixed point accompanying our walk

along the shore. Sometimes I think
it's the where-we-will be,
only not yet, like some visible outcropping


of the afterlife. In the dark
its deeper invitations emerge:
green witness at night's end,


flickering margin of horizon,
marker of safety and limit.
but limitless, the way it calls us,

and where it seems to want us
to come, And so I invite it
into the poem, to speak,

and the lighthouse says:
Here is the world you asked for,
gorgeous and opportune,

here is nine o'clock, harbor-wide,
and a glinting code: promise and warning.
The morning's the size of heaven.

What will you do with it?

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Finding Calm




I can find calm most readily when I let go of believing that I am responsible for the feelings, actions, or attitudes others.

I can influence and be influenced, but at the end of the day I am only responsible for my actions.

Everyone's path makes sense to them. People choose relationships--family dynamics, friendships, and partnerships--for reasons that suit them. They don't have to make sense to me.

Seeking "the perfect" in anything is self-defeating. Make a little progress every moment. Revel in experiences that bring peace; strive to move through experiences that feel shameful, frustrating, or disappointing.

It is good and wise to put ourselves first. We may raise children, take care of friends and family, and support colleagues. But none of this is possible without making ourselves the priority.

Find courage everyday to speak up. Ask for what you need.